Advanced age, unfortunately, is often accompanied by dementia, whether from Alzheimer’s disease, strokes, small and large, or any of a number of other illnesses. By some measures, half of those over 85 suffer from dementia. The more severe the dementia, the more assistance seniors need getting through the day.
Seniors with dementia can also be at great physical and financial risk due to their own bad decisions and their susceptibility to abuse, again either physical or financial. Depending on the situation, protecting seniors with cognitive impairment, as well as those around them, can be difficult.
What can family members do when a parent should stop driving, but refuses to do so? What if they respond to every telephone solicitation that comes their way? What if they refuse help in the house or resist moving to an assisted living facility?
In many instances, seniors can be cajoled to do what’s best for them. But not always. In such cases, there is the legal remedy of guardianship. Unfortunately, as we shall see, the law can be a blunt instrument.
Every American has the right to determine where she will live, who can come into her home, and how she will spend her money. This personal autonomy can only be taken away by a court determination that an individual is so impaired that she will be injured unless someone is appointed to step into her shoes and make decisions for her.
What is Guardianship?
The person appointed is named either a “guardian” or “conservator” depending on the state’s nomenclature and rights transferred. In many states, a “guardian” is appointed to make personal decisions, such as where the protected person will live and what health care she will receive, while the “conservator” makes financial and legal decisions. The two roles can be filled by separate people or by the same person.
Guardianship proceedings are problematic on a number of levels.
- They take away the protected person’s rights – he can no longer make decisions for himself.
- He is declared to be incompetent, which can be hurtful.
- There is the cost of hiring attorneys and doctors to get through the process.
- The protected person’s situation and finances become part of the public record and the guardian and conservator must make annual reports to the court.
- Finally, depending on the state, many financial and estate planning steps that may be advisable can only be taken with court approval, which causes delay and increases legal fees.
Most states’ laws permit guardianship or conservatorship appointments to be tailored to transfer to the appointed person only those rights needed to make sure the senior is protected. Yet, in most instances no one takes the trouble to do this and the appointment is “plenary”, meaning all rights are taken away from the senior.
Avoiding Guardianship
So, if guardianship and conservatorship are so bad, why does anyone use these procedures? The answer is either because there is no alternative or due to lack of planning.
Often, guardianship and conservatorship can be avoided through estate planning while the senior is healthy and competent. By appointing personal representatives through durable powers of attorney, health care proxies and trusts, an individual can choose who will make decisions for him when he is no longer able to do so. This can avoid family disputes and the cost and delay of guardianship proceedings. It can also give the appointed person more freedom to take the appropriate steps to protect the senior.
Nevertheless, even with proper planning, family members sometimes have to resort to the courts. This is often the case when the senior has become obstreperous and is putting himself or others in danger, or when a third party is unduly influencing the senior. In those instances, going to court may be the only solution.